Self-talk about being Unconditionally Welcomed, Loved and Perfect?

Now that you've read what the Lord of the Akashic Records shared about each of us holding each family member in Love and Light and letting them know they are always Unconditionally Welcome, Unconditionally Loved and that you see them as Unconditionally Perfect, there are a couple of questions:

Q: Suppose I hate what someone is doing? Am I supposed to hold them in this Unconditional stuff?

Multiple choice answers:
1. No. Kick them to the curb.
2. No. Use this as the perfect opportunity to "dis" them.
3. Yes. It doesn't matter what they have done.
4. Yes. Separate the person/soul from the behavior/action.

What's your final answer?

A. 4. Yes. Separate the person/soul from the behavior/action. Consequences follow actions. While they are experiencing the consequences (either "good" or "bad") they should experience the safe haven of the family. This safety is an outcome of knowing they are Unconditionally Welcome, Loved and seen as Perfect -- no matter what. THIS is the everlasting Truth and reality. All else is only temporary.

Q. Do I hold myself in the same state? Should my self-talk be that I am Unconditionally Welcome in this life, this lifetime, this existance; that I am Unconditionally Loved; and, that I am Unconditionally Perfect?

Multiple choice answers:
1. No. This is what you say and do for/with everybody else.
2. No. That would be selfish, self-centered and egotistical.
3. No. It's everybody else's job to provide those things for me.
4. Yes.

What's your final answer?

A. 4. Remember when you travel on an airplane as the flight attendants are reviewing all the safety issues? Um hum. WHO should you put the oxygen mask on first? Riiiiiight. Not saying it's not hard work. Sometimes it is. Sometimes we don't do a good job of it and our self-talk says just the opposite. The result of that kind of self-talk is low self-esteem, abusive behavior toward ourselves, additions, disease and unrest.

LIFEWORK:
1. Please don't beat yourself with even more "negative" self-talk if you've been talking to yourself negatively!
2. Please, with thanksgiving and gratitude, look at your past behavior and, with thanksgiving and gratitude, say thank you for the opportunity to understand and experience whatever the result has been.
3. And, in the very same moment, choose again those things that are in your highest good. Journal, make a recording, do something where you are communicating to yourself that you are Unconditionally Welcome, Loved and Perfect.
4. Deliberately seek out someone you trust who lets you know you are Unconditionally Welcome, Loved and Perfect. Tell them about your new intention -- to experience these things for yourself. Ask them to help you. Come up with a plan of action.
5. Enjoy. Remember, you are replacing a habit of negative self-talk by with a new habit of loving self-talk. It's like a toddler learning to walk. You may stumble, be uncertain and even fall. When you stick to it, you'll soon walk with confidence. Enjoy!

You are Unconditionally Welcome, Loved and Perfect!

PS: The next post will be on 3-1-2010.